can you handle the truth?

relationship really needs trust and honesty to make it work. it is very normal for us gals to be insecured and hence, they tend to accuse their partners of things that they do not commit. i am sure you have heard of a gal sulking towards the guy on cheating issues even though the guy is innocent. sometimes, they might even ask stupid and annoying questions. but why do us girls do this when they infact already know the answer to them all?

i believe that all we want is security. it does feel good when ur partner tries so hard to prove that he is loyal and true to one. we like it when they say that we are the only ones in their whole mind and soul. it is not that we do not have the trust. we do but it can fluctuate and hence, the partner has to bring up the trust level back to its optimum level.

other than asking your partners repeatitively with such great annoyment, should we become their stalkers? checking out his emails / facebooks and what would be even worse is to check things out on his laptop! what are we trying to look for anyway? if we unexpectedly found something that might disappoint us, issit worth doing so in the first place?

they said truth hurts and i cannot disagree on the matter further. but issit worthy to go thru the pain and anxiety? will things still remain the same or will you greatly be affected by it?

maybe we should upgrade our trust towards our partners. be a risk taker and do not simply driven by emotions.